Alright, let’s spill some secrets. Boudoir photography might look effortless—flawless poses, dreamy lighting, confidence radiating from every shot—but there are a few things we photographers don’t always tell you. Don’t worry, it’s nothing scary! Just some behind-the-scenes truths that will have you nodding along (and maybe even laughing) once you experience your own session. So, if you’ve ever wondered what really happens during a boudoir shoot, here are five things nobody tells you—but I think you definitely should know!
Secret #1: Everyone is nervous at first – and that’s totally normal!
If you’re feeling a little (or a lot) nervous about your boudoir session, you’re not alone! Every single client—yes, even the confident-looking ones in my portfolio—starts off with a case of the jitters. But here’s the secret: those nerves fade fast! Once you get into the session and see how fun and empowering it is, that initial anxiety turns into excitement. I’ll guide you every step of the way, so all you have to do is show up and trust the process.
Secret #2: Posing is hard work – “I’ve never worked so hard to look relaxed!”
Boudoir photography is all about creating stunning, effortless-looking images—but behind the scenes, there’s a bit of a workout involved! Arching your back, pointing your toes, tilting your chin just right—it’s all part of the process to create those jaw-dropping images. But don’t worry, I’ll coach you through every pose and adjust you down to your fingertips. And yes, you might wake up a little sore the next day, but it’s all part of the magic!
Secret #3: It’s an amazing investment in yourself
A boudoir session is so much more than a photoshoot—it’s an experience that can change how you see yourself. It’s a chance to step outside your comfort zone, embrace your body, and celebrate the woman you are right now. These images become a powerful reminder of your strength, beauty, and confidence. Every time you look at them, you’ll remember exactly how incredible you are—because you are incredible and that is always worth documenting.
Secret #4: Hair and makeup isn’t just about hair and makeup
Sure, professional hair and makeup make you look stunning on camera, but the experience is about so much more. It’s about slowing down, relaxing, and allowing yourself to be pampered. When was the last time you got to focus just on you? It’s a moment to sit back, sip a drink, and step into your most confident self before your session even starts. By the time you step in front of the camera, you won’t just look amazing—you’ll feel it too.
Secret #5: Size really doesn’t matter – Forget what the tag says!
Boudoir is for every body. It’s not about fitting into a certain size—it’s about celebrating your unique shape. I always recommend choosing outfits that fit well rather than focusing on the number on the tag. A well-fitted piece accentuates your curves, avoids awkward bulges, and makes you feel sexy and confident. And if you’re not sure what to wear, I’ve got a Client Closet full of gorgeous options that flatter every body type! I’ll help you pick out the best shapes and colors to make you feel like an absolute goddess.
Ready to experience it for yourself?
Now that you know what to expect, are you ready to take the leap? A boudoir session is one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself, and I’d love to help you create something truly special. Let’s chat about how we can bring your vision to life!
